I could be totally off the mark, but I think I just had a decent first date. I was wrong and he suggested meeting up for coffee, since we were both going to be in the same neighborhood. By the time we finally talked on the phone this Thursday, I felt like it was probably going to take another three months for this guy to ask me out. We played voicemail phone tag for a few days. I was shocked and took three days to call him back, not wanting to appear available, since we all know no man likes an available woman. I didn’t reply and within a day, actually had a voicemail from a sexy sounding voice. He didn’t call, but emailed, saying that he would miss the emails. I then typed my phone number and said, if you’d like to do something some time, give me a call. Coffee Companion first and basically said, as much as I love this back and forth email thing, it’s not really getting me what I’m looking for. And as summer quickly approached and my email relationships were starting to take up more time than my actual dating life, I decided it was time to take the bull by the horns. This past June I suddenly found myself emailing with several men. And for months (and I mean MONTHS), I was totally content with my little email buddy. We emailed consistently about every topic under the sun from dating to death.

He mentioned working out in his profile and I try my damnedest not to date men who are in better shape than I am.

Initially, I wasn’t interested and really wasn’t sure what he was looking for. Coffee Companion for months on an online dating site. I need to preface this with a few background tidbits.

My karma sutra buddy